Yet another topic regarding the opposite sex...

GeminiMan

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...this one's a little different.

Let's start with a girl we shall call "B". I liked B for a really long time last year, and we were best friends... while one of my friends was also off-and-on with her. No matter how much I liked her, I promised myself I'd never make the first move on her. But then, by some miracle, she broke Lobster's Law and told me how she felt about me. Score. Well, after a month of walking on the clouds, she completely ditched me to go back to erm... her ex... as she was still going to Winter Prom with him. Well, they broke up bigtime right after that, and went super emo and still wanted me to be there for her... and regretably, I was. A few weeks later she said how she had never stopped liking me and whatever. Got banged by some other guy a week after that. So basically, she made me feel like absolute shit for 2-3 months after, and I still got pissed at the sound of her voice until late in the summer prolly. She's an inconsiderate bitch, really. And now, we have two classes together, and she just broke up her with boyfriend of 5 months. We still flirt a bit, and sometimes I think I like her again until I remind myself how much I hate her. I'm sure she likes me... again... but I'm not gonna fuck up like that again. But she's always around me. Sits by me in class, wants to hang out, drives me home on offcampus, and still tries to talk to me about her useless and pathetic drama. I just can't seem to get rid of her. She's a nightmare and I can't seem to wake up with her gone.

Girl #2, who we shall call... "M". I had started liking her, and it was that which made B say she liked me. Well, after all the stuff with B, February came around last year. I was elected Sadie Hawkins Prom prince for the sophomore class and she asked me to prom. We basically had an awesome time. But sparks didn't really fly. We would hang out off and on, and a lot for the start of summer and I'm purdy sure we liked each other but things just never took the next step. After a while, I stopped liking her, and she kind of got old to me. But, now that I don't really care about her at all, she's just always around. Especially when I don't want her to be. If I wanna go sit with some other girls at lunch... nope, she's already asked if she can come with me to get something to eat. It just irritates me.

Both of these girls are quite good looking. M is kind of a "good girl" and in leadership and all that jazz. But, after failing to connet with her once already, I just don't wanna have much to do with her anymore. B is sort of an unaccepting bitch to some people and isn't always someone you can trust... with anything... including getting banged by some guy in some band that everyone thinks is hott.

I'm not the kind of guy who's gonna tell them off or be an ass to them. But seriously. They're clingyness is making it hard to establish other relationships... or even just hang with someone different for a change. I really gotta find a way to get out of this rut... blar.
 

shawn

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Go rent the movie Boys and Girls at the video store. I used to be like this guy is in the movie and you are and are just starting to recognize it. I could tell you but the movie makes it so apparent even though the ending will probably not apply. Besides it's a great movie and you'll enjoy it. <img src=smilies/magbiggrin.gif>
 

Lobster Cowboy

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Yeah, your first mistake was becoming rant bitch to 'B' (by the way, I love how Swampy's shorthand for women caught on), but there is a way out.

The key to achieving this can be accomplished in one step: stop paying attention.

I know it's hard to stop paying attention sometimes, but you can give the illusion that you are. Constantly ask them to repeat what they just said, especially if it's on a point they think is important. Do this enough, and they'll talk to you less and less, until one day you're finally free,

The reason you become a rant bitch in the first place is because you were giving them your full attention. They have a captive audience, and boy, do they like to hold onto that audience.

Now be aware. In some extreme cases, not paying attention can lead to the woman going even crazier about keeping you, to the point where they think they love you. If that ever happens, you just have to tell them the truth, even if it hurts them. Just be as cool as possible, in the unlikely event this happens.
 

GeminiMan

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> Now be aware. In some extreme cases, not paying attention
> can lead to the woman going even crazier about keeping you

This is about where I'm at now. I've never actually payed much attention to what she was saying... just nod a bunch and give the illusion of listening. However, I don't even pretend to show any interest in what she has to say anymore. She's getting desperate for my attention whenever I'm around her. I think I've even told her that she needs to figure her own shit out before. I guess you're prolly right that I should just tell her how I feel and hope she doesn't beat herself up about it too much... ha.

And my days of actually being her rant bitch ended a very long time ago. I've learned a lot and changed substantially since those days.
 

king killa

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I can relate to a lot fo that.

I dated a girl for 2 months, in the meantime her friend, who had a boyfriend for a year and a half totally had the hots for me, and talked about me so much that her boyfriend of a year and a half got pissed off, and they ended up breaking up. so, after me and my girl broke up, I started going out with this other girl. It lasted for 2 months, and she left me for her ex.

It's more complicated if you live it, I guess.
 

Slayer7.666

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man i think we must be long seperated brothers from birth or some thing, just call "B" "N" instead ("N" is the first letter of the name so...) like what i did was evry thing she hates 1. talk of my problems without paying attention at all like the ultra cold guy who did't even wake up from bed yet kinda cold. and trust me 1st girls eat attention, im shur she goes like: heyyyyy howww are youu :D:D::D:D::D::D:D::D::D:D:D and jump in your face poking you in the stomak till you atleast look at her, at first it will be that, but as you are shoing that you are a lifeless boring piece of dust she will start to believe it and get her attention from some were els , now for girl "M" was it? well the same treatment will do 90X more effectivness.

(trust me I don't know how to get girls but shur know what they hate or just how to repelthem with no effort although i cheat by daydraming "hardcore" {not xxx lol} sins i got some attention disorder wich i now have controle of, neat hen?)

well with "M" just say that if you don't whant her well ingore her a bit so she progressivly start to go away or just say that you are busy then also you could try telling her that your consider her as your friend almost like your sister. (so she might feel like not dating her bro right? like its a soft way of saying she ain't on the dating list) just don't think that these will work automaticly for girl "M" sins thats were I am (exepth she admitted she liked me and me to but i just got bored of her when i saw that she basicly told me the story of her life in 2 days so not much in her life exept like her biggest adventure: she got in the cinema for less money by passing for a 12 yrs old when she was 14, like wow<img src=smilies/cwm10.gif> big life guess im like cold propane and i need a girl who is on fire to set me up on fire to, not just some more propane.... well enough with my methaphoric talking...just do what i told you for gorl "B" and she will proly see that you ain't interresed

(don't over do it in case she start to say to her friends that your not wort the trouble cos your a "dead fart" just increase the ingorence level till it works)

My name is Goku, Alied to good, Nightmare to you!
 

CEpeep

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God. Am I the only one who can't read your posts? I feel like I'm having an aneurysm whenever I look at your text on the screen. Either learn how to type/spell, or stop posting when you're high on coke.
 

shawn

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> God. Am I the only one who can't read your posts?

Yes, you really need to up your coke intake bud. <img src=smilies/magbiggrin.gif>
 

Slayer7.666

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> God. Am I the only one who can't read your posts? Either learn how to type/spell, or stop posting when you're high on coke.
>

well 1st im french so that kills the syntax and word spelling

2nd i never use ponctuation (i have been posting in many places and i never get better...)

and 3rd i just can't make it short so... i will try to cut the text in paragraphs or in posts but no promis on the reading quality improvement.

(by the way sorry to all that can't read it seriously i allways recorrect like 3 times and the non corrected form is quite unreadable even for me.)
 

GeminiMan

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Okay... Slayer... Get a pen and paper and write this down...

Never, under any circumstances, should you ever tell a girl that she reminds you of your sister.

Unless you're gay?

And I think I'm just gonna ride this out... not really change much for right now. I don't have a lot of excellent options at this time, so hopefully someone new will come along soon and that'll be the end of this jazz.
 

shawn

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> Never, under any circumstances, should you ever tell a girl
> that she reminds you of your sister.
> Unless you're gay?

or in Alabama. <img src=smilies/liefde.gif>
 

shawn

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> I think this is a textbook example of the pot calling the
> kettle black
>
Ok sure my posts are somewhat hard to read but I always try to use good grammar and I have also been using periods lately.

PS I had to view in threaded mode to find out what you were responding to. Could you leave a little of the post you're referencing when replying because I had no idea what you were replying to?

PS I don't do coke, I was joking about that totally. <img src=smilies/magbiggrin.gif>
 

Cornellius

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> well 1st im french so that kills the syntax and word
> spelling

I'm french too so that's not a good excuse. Learn.
 
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