Is trying to help pointless?

Phoenix

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I like to help people. I volunteer for all kinds of things because it makes me sad that there arehomeless people, children whose parents don't care, and just sad people in general. I like for people to be happy. So I do lots of volunteer work.
Right about now, they all seem rather pointless. Specifically, one that I spend the most time on. Every day after school and work, I walk to Tulane where I spend about 3 hours working with the "Young Scholars" program. Their slogan is "Taking the Risk out of At Risk Children"
It's all a bunch of bullshit.
1. The children are selected to join the program and then the parents pay for them to attend.
2. The schools the program selects from are some of the better run schools in the area. AKA not as "at risk" as the rest.

I'm there as a counselor. I was told to work with two other student workers to design a curriculum following the guidelines set by Dr. Do-little(the lady over us)
The curriculum we're writing is going to be published in a book under her name. That doesn't bother me. What bothers me is that the entire book will be a lie, so in fact, I'd rather it be published under her name.We're not helping at risk children. We're babysitting and getting paid to do it. We haven't used this curriculum. We're trying, but its based off the fact that we were led to believe we would have the same group of students every day. We are given sporadic sets of students everyday. Some kids I've had 4 times, some I've had once.

And its not just Young Scholars. I'm noticing that plenty of the organizations that are there to help aren't really helping. They're making money. I want to find a good, solid organization out there that really wants to help people.


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> I like to help people. I volunteer for all kinds of things
> because it makes me sad that there arehomeless people,
> children whose parents don't care, and just sad people in
> general. I like for people to be happy. So I do lots of
> volunteer work.

No, trying to help is good, but you can't have too much expectations from it. Doing good is supposed to be it's own reward - karma type of thing. Also, not every "helpful" organization is going to provide the best experience for someone that wants to really make a difference. You're obviously seeing this.

If it gets you down, try doing a little less *specific* stuff and just chill out and do something you like to do for you. There's always random opportunities to help people. Those can be rewarding too. I'm kind of a mini Jay Leno when it comes to people stuck on the road, especially (no feminazi hate please) women. Like flat tires and stuff. It's nice to give a little out of your day, when you have other plans and stuff, but take the time to be thoughtful.

Bottom line, if things are making you sad, something's wrong. Helping people should be mostly a good experience.

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if you enjoy helping people, keep doing it.

if you think it sucks, quit.

my philosophy is to never do anything that you hate. you end up wasting what little life you have to begin with

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find something else then man, I tried volunteering in the past and they never gave me anything worthwhile to do,

rearrangeing photos for an album for a homeless shelter?

and so on

anyway I gave up, but my city is small, so their maybe more opportunities for you to help out elsewhere doing "legit" help <img src=smilies/thumb.gif>

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