I'm contemplating breaking some bones.

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UncleOral

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So, a few months ago, I met my step-father's daughter and her boyfriend, they seemed to be a happy couple by all appearances, and she gave me a really warm smile and seemed like a nice girl.

Skip forward to a few months later, my step-father tells me how her boyfriend had tried to hit her, and wanted to move away from him, and so she did.
The original plan was that she would stay in our house (which is uber huge, and she would be staying in a room two steps from mine in the 2nd floor), however seeing as she had a freaking 7 dogs and 5 cats (and a horse) that she really had no place to put (except the horse), that turned out to be a tough one (we have 5 cats already, and I doubt they like dogs). Guess who turns up as the rescuing 'angel', her boyfriend and his camping-wagon, of course. They can stay at her moms property 'until things sorts out'.

Fast forward a while more, and I get to know her more since she peddles back and forth the city and there (her mom lives a few miles outside town) going to school nearby my\my step-father's house, and she is the sweetest girl you can imagine. We instantly clicked together like two pieces of lego.
She told me she wasn't really with her boyfriend, he just wouldn't leave and her mom (who is in the almost same fucking situation as her), told her it's just her fault anyways.

A while later I ask her on a date, we ended up not going to the movies but instead watch 'Finding Nemo' on DVD in my room yesterday, we had a great time though nothing much happened but a lot of talking.
Today, I asked her over again, we watch some more DVD's, and this time we're getting busy and the transformation was incredible. You could literally see how the weights she was carrying dropped off her shoulders, and she laughed like never before.

I almost plead her to stay tonight, because I had a bad feeling, and since she had stuff she needed to do in town tomorrow she might as well stay over in one of the guest rooms, she says it would cause too much trouble and seeing as I don't want to be too pushy and turn into her boyfriend (it has to be her decision), I respectfully agreed but had to say it was a bad idea. Her boyfriend calls her up, and she leaves, telling me to call her in about 30-40 mins when she gets home.

I call her, she takes the phone and I can immediately hear there is a ruckus, she sounds ok though so I shrug it off.
Here's where it gets tricky...

She tells me she told him all about what happened in my room (...), and how he got pissed at that, not a huge surprise there.
I can hear him shouting something, not entirely sure what it was, she informs me exactly what, "Bitch, if I drived you all the way back out here just for you to chat again you might as well walk back".

At this point, she is exiting the wagon, walking out along the trench by the road. She's not upset at this point, it sounds more like a jest than anything serious, and so she starts joking that he's getting into the car and going to follow her.
She hides, and says; "Listen..."
I can hear a car driving by silenty in the night, she dismisses it with a giggle though she sounds more nervous now than before.
It is then she informs me that he has tried running her over with his car before, my senses leave me for a second and panic enters, refusing to leave at first.
As I gather up my thoughts, she says she's walking back to the wagon, and tells me to call her back in 5 minutes.
Boy, those were the longest 5 minutes of my life, let me tell you. Every second felt like I could have solved the mysteries of life, yet I could not do any constructive thinking for the life of me.

I call her back, no response.
Call her again, nothing.

I go upstairs in the third floor and I want to wake up my step-father and tell him about all this, I decide not to for the time being (hard to explain why, it's difficult and time consuming).

I call her again a few minutes after (felt more like hours), no connection, her cell was out.
I start tugging out my hair because I don't have a driver's license yet, yet feel like grabbing my step-dad's car anyways.
I shake away the thought, I'd rather grab a cab out there.
Before that, I call again...
Response, it is calling. She answers, her voice sounds tiny, like a little girl who had just woken up. It is quiet, so I assume she's back in the forest for some reason. When I speak with her, her voice has a trembling to it at sudden intervals, I ask her what's wrong. She replies that it's no big deal...she can handle it, I stress the question, but never raise my voice.
She starts sobbing, and can't control her breathing properly. She whimpers out, "He...he tried to hit me again, but I managed to get into the house and lock myself in".
I tell her immediately to call the police, this has gone far enough and needs to stop right now before it escalates into something even more terrible. I can hear banging on a door.

I say *I* will call the police, just sit tight there and wait for them to come, she reluctently agrees and I hang up.
The officer doesn't seem to take it all too seriously at first, until I stress what he seemed to miss. He tried to fucking hit her, she's afraid for her life.
He asks for her phone number while informing me that even though she has no money on her cell, emergency numbers are free, I completely forgot that in my rush.

I call her back after waiting a while, I ask her if she talked to the police. She lets out a squeek that resembles a yes, and I follow up with did she tell them to send officers for help. I had previously told her to get police officers out there so she can safely fetch things from his wagon and so that they could drive her here. No such luck, she had declined, saying that, "She couldn't see him any more".
I try to remain calm, but it is getting harder, I ask her how that makes her any safer, but quickly follows up with a long speech about how this can only be fixed by pressing charges and getting his wagon removed.

Now might be a good time to say that she has been through this exact situation before with another boyfriend, and that it was even worse last time. He had locked her into a room and forced her down to the bed, he had not raped her but she was not allowed to leave. Her mom had gotten worried and called the police, and they arrested him and she filed charges. She went through hell for that, her mom was claiming it was her fault and the police were handling the situation like how an orangutang would split up a fight between hooligans and extremist towelheads.

The point being, she would not, could not face that again, it was too hard, no, never. Her sobbing turned into something more.
At this point, I ask her if there is anyone that can drive her back here (all my friends are drunk, it's saturday night), she couldn't think straight at first, and after a while it hit me. I knew she had a friend who drives a cab, that would save me the money, I ask for his phone number and if he's driving right now. I get it, and she thinks he is, remembering from earlier tonight.
I call him up, and she had already gotten a message from her, but she didn't want to face the boyfriend alone, and asked me to come too.
I agree wholeheartedly, I would have asked to come no matter what.
I search around looking for a bat, and I find a pretty big wrench, it'll do.
It never got much use, however, I call her back to inform her we're coming, but her moms "husband" had arrived there, and could loan her the car.

That was 30 minutes ago, and that is around the time it takes to type up this post (I know that now), and also how long it should take for her to get here.
I'm awaiting her arrival now, and let's pray with all our might this has a happy ending, because if not, I will fucking make bones break, skulls crack, and it will be the happiest fucking ending since Hanzel and Gretel beat the shit out of the witch and lived happily ever after, foreverfuckingmore.
 
Good luck my friend. Normally I wouldn't say this since violence doesn't really solve the problem, but if he touched her I would want to beat the ever living hell out of him as well, so get in one for me.
 
Don't kill him, he's obviously not worth it. But do make him suffer, make him want to die. People like that are worthless and should be exterminated. But do to legal reprecussions, we cannot just go around killing them.
But I hear ya. My half/sister's involved with a cocaine addict who locked himself in his room with her baby and claiming that if she leaves him he'll get the courts to sign full custody to him and she'll never see him again.
Seems like this has been a bad year for the both of us.
 
> But I hear ya. My half/sister's involved with a cocaine
> addict who locked himself in his room with her baby and
> claiming that if she leaves him he'll get the courts to sign
> full custody to him and she'll never see him again.
> Seems like this has been a bad year for the both of us.

But...he's a cocaine addict. Why does he think the courts would find this to be in his favour?
 
Whoah... I hope it turns out ok.
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Thanks guys, and yeah...I won't kill him. I almost wish he assaults me though, he will have to eat the rest of his meals through a straw.

Update:

She came yesterday about 10 minutes after I finished posting, I am so pissed at her dad for what he said, which ultimately only made her even more terrified, afraid and feeling like it was somehow her fault (this is about as much her fault as it is her fault that she is her fathers offspring).

She was almost whimpering at times, and we ended up sleeping in the same bed with clothes on. She isn't doing any better today, she was crying 5 minutes after waking up, and even though she only ate lunch in the whole of yesterday she can't bring herself to eat anything (I told her she had to eat, she needs the energy, and we had some leftover chocolate cake which I thought would do the trick, it worked).

Today we're going to go back and fetch the rest of her stuff out of the wagon, I'm calling in all the favors I got in my family to see if there isn't any place she can stay with her (now 1 dog and 1 cat) animals. Both my uncles rents out, though I think only one of them has anything available at the moment.
After that, we're calling the police and asking them to kindly remove the camping-wagon out of her moms property, as it has no business there whatsoever.
 
> But...he's a cocaine addict. Why does he think the courts
> would find this to be in his favour?

They won't. Taht's what we tell her, but she won't listen. She figured because he has a job and an apartment in his name, he would get the baby. Now she herself has a job and yet still she won't leave himin the dust.
He's also a complete moron. We tell her time an time again he's no good for her, and he keeps proving us right. She's left him at least 8 times this year. Yet she keeps going back to him.
Hell, when the baby was born, the cord was wrapped around his neck so tight his entire body was blue. And that dumb ass is sitting there making "Ewww," noises and comemnting on how gross it is. Hell, when he first saw that baby hanging their copmpletely blue and almost lifelessly he asked if something was wrong.
Hell, after they took the baby to ICU, he was still acting like a dip-shit. And at 2:00am he got my sister, put her in a wheelchair and <u>raced down the hospital's hallways making car noises</u>.
And when mom came to pick her up from the hospital that weekend, She found him sitting next to the hospital bed eating sunflower seeds and putting the shells on her bed.
Graaahhhh, I wish God would strike divine thunder and destroy him.
And while she was still in labor, the doctor said it was best neither one of them smoked around the baby or even outside because the cigarrette smell would still be on you and it wouldn't be good for the baby. And dumb ass over there had to ask probably the stupidest question in human history.
"You mean he's going to come out smelling like cigarrettes?"
 
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Why do buses always seem to hit the wrong people?


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how can you hit a girl thats so gay/weak, all you can think!

man, I mean, how?? can you hit a girl? i mean how weak can you be to do that? like letting your emotions controling you like that is weak, and if he is weak enough to hit a girl (kinda like a angry 5yrs old brat who is pissed after is lego block...) he can't even be a punch in a fight. (though it ain't weak to let your rage controle you in your situation, like if you would not be mad at that old farting, "girl hitting bastartd" i would of said that you were gay or something though it ain't your case)

like 1. he proly hits girls cos he would not even be able to beat a 10yrs old "even" if he had a baseball bat!
2. if he is dishonorable enough to hit a girl, you can kick him in the balls, sins it ain't even "called" dishonor in such a case.

3. if any thing would resently happen like that now that i can fight a bit and know how to break bones in one hit, i would gladly "not" do that and just tear his face off with my bear hand or theets, sins i would of forgoten how to fight in the madness.

4.make her feel good, make her see that she just was unlucky to find love with total "moron bitches" (don't say that though) and that you ain't any thing like that, one, don't get mad at things (exept when its has to do with her suffering at the hands of others) two, be gentle at all time and have a "LOT" of compassion for her and three, make that every accomplichments or things that she do is wonderfull! (exept if she is crying or that she done some thing bad, in that case just have compassion and make her feel good again)

becos she got traumatised with this you have to make her see that its ain't her fault at all. and that from now, it will be ok and that "you" are not her past boyfriends; that you are "you" and that you are not like that at all.

well i got cartried away. but you don't have to do all of this, just that maby some of these would be a good thing to try. you be the juge (that guy with the hammer at court that makes decisions, not a jug hehe)

and also i have nothing agains't gay guys, i mean gay as in all weak/efeminated related to gay kinda gay, like I would bet my "arm to cut of" that if any gay person reading this would never hit a girl. (and by the way is there a word wich means weak and efeminated at the same time? remember im french and localisation makes words mean some suplementary things.... any ways CARP DIEM)

well man good luck! i "DO" know what it feels like and at these times even god can't stand in your way so hold back on vital organs like the head, the neck and back, but i encourage you to hit in the "xzou" well they are pronownced like that, they are ultra sencible places like next to your shoulder on the chest a bit more to the midle but still in the choulder's folding area. like hit your self there with "just" a "finger" and your arm will be numb for 30 sec!! try it go now!!! NOW!!! ok well again Good luck to both of you two (why do i add two with both?)
 
Hang in there....and I know how tough it is to restrain oneself from wanting to hit a woman beater- they all need a good old country ass whuppin.
 
Re: how can you hit a girl thats so gay/weak, all you can think!

(and by the way is there a word wich
> means weak and efeminated at the same time? remember im
> french and localisation makes words mean some suplementary
> things....

you know... even though your English is rudimentary at times, I find your posts quite endearing. :)

Here are some English words that would be suitable:

- pansy
- pantywaist
- wuss

I'm sure there are tons of others.

Anyway... reading over this thread strikes an interesting chord with me. I could've just as well have been the girl who thought that "the situations I end up in with bad people are all my fault because I was involved with them" ...which is of course blatantly false.

UncleOral, It is up to you to teach this girl that she's a wonderful person, and... once the "asshole factor" is removed, the stress will just melt away. Sounds to me like this asshole of an ex-boyfriend she has needs to either have a few bones broken (but yeah, don't get yourself in trouble over it.. make it look like an accident, hohoho) or spend some time in jail to be straightened out.

Good luck. It sounds like you're just what she needs to start straightening her life out.

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> Hang in there....and I know how tough it is to restrain
> oneself from wanting to hit a woman beater- they all need a
> good old country ass whuppin.
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Hell yeah. It's always fun to use a wooden mallet, breaks fingers easily.
 
> Argh
> Why do buses always seem to hit the wrong people?

I don't know man...one of those eternal questions that are not for us to answer methinks.
 
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How old are you anyway? You say you don't even have your
driver's license yet, but you seem to be mature beyond your
years.


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Heheh...my screen name plus the fact that I don't have a drivers license yet probably makes me sound young, but I'm actually 22.
You need to be 18 to drive in Norway, though I've never actually had much interest in cars (I walk or jog mostly, or grab the bus or call a friend if in a hurry), seeing as my town isn't really that big anyhoo.

She lived on the outskirts of another island near this one though, so jogging wasn't an option. :p

Another update:

We were at the police station today filing charges, which is one fucking huge step towards freedom. She said herself afterwards, "I feel about a million tons lighter now...".

I replied, "You have no idea how proud I am of you right now...YOU have made the choice. YOU have the strength to get through this like the wonderful and special person you are."

I'm deadly honest in both real life and the internet, I meant every word. She is my light, my guiding star, I wouldn't trade her for a kersplosillion bucks.
 
this girl has too much baggage.

so she's your sister in law, and she has an asshole boyfriend. girls like that shit. you offer yourself as her savior and she goes right back to him. it's gonna keep happening. don't get mixed up in her problems.
 
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> so she's your sister in law, and she has an asshole
> boyfriend. girls like that shit. you offer yourself as her
> savior and she goes right back to him. it's gonna keep
> happening. don't get mixed up in her problems.

Family is family. We take care of our family here, I don't know about yours, but my family members bail each other out no matter how fucked they are. You don't even have to be blood, if you're married to a family members or something, whatever you did that got you in trouble is not really consideredl. I think that's how most families are. I've had some family members get into some heinous shit, and we don't just throw them to the wolves...
 
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> Family is family. We take care of our family here, I don't
> know about yours, but my family members bail each other out
> no matter how fucked they are.

and man like you realy would let that apen to a girl? well i think people "should" do some thing about it, 1st of all its becos they don't do a shit that it goes on, you know you don't have to play "skip rope" with that bastard intestins. you just have to talk to the girl and make her see that its no good. just give support! like a man who beats his wife/girl friend, should not even deserv one and trade space with us who don't get girls. like maby we like "nerdy" stuff, and we don't fight like gods and we look a bit less good than the common man. but "WE DO" have more hearts that those "Common bastards" witch only have 2 things to do in life: 1 watch football and 2 beat there wifes. we the common neard witch should be proud of being subdevided from these other moron who only think about what they like and don't gives a damn about others.

man I hate it when i see guys who don't open the dore for a woman and that just goes impolitely as if he has done nothing...or don't gives his seat when some girl is stuck standing and all you do is watch?? like what ever... you won't see me like that. now thats off topic....

seriously family is all you have in life, if you don't care about them well you might be left alone when you will need help so its importent to care about people and family and not just being a selfish ass crack who thinks he can piss people off and hit who he whants with no consequense.

man i allways get off the family topic, i just can't imagin the family pictur cos i don't have much of one, "BUT" I do know that u need to respect people and help them when ever you can, cos its plain stupid not to. well i guess im kinda like some emo kid or some thing exept i only have 2 emotions 1. compation, 2. hate. or nothing when i play guitar but its not realy a emotion soo....

guess all im saying is I hate weaklings who only thinks of them self. like are you so weake that you can't sacrifice 1/2 your lunch for some one who had his lunch money stolen? are you so weak that you would not get your hands dirty to help some one a bit? (excluding stuff like going to prison for some one els, but being ritch and having a friend who accidently broke a window and blaming it on you counts as helping but its not if he starts breaking stuff just so that you get blamed for it though....) darrrrr any ways im soooooooooo of topic i might start talking of how dust accumulates on a retro projector...
 
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I don't see her as family at all, but that's beside the point anyways.

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she has an asshole boyfriend. girls like that shit. you offer yourself as her savior and she goes right back to him. it's gonna keep
happening. don't get mixed up in her problems.


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She didn't and will not go right back to him, she feels like a bird now, she will spread her wings and fly. With me, or by herself.

She's past that stage, and I will help her stay there.

And by the way, I'm having trouble understanding your sentiments. The, "Don't get mixed up in her problems" mentality is basically what is wrong with the world today.
 
Re: this girl has too much baggage.

Sounds to me like he new a girl that he liked, and went back to her bad boyfriend instead of him. You know, that jaded, jealous type. "I LOVED her, man! And she went RIGHT back to that asshole!"

That's my theory.
 
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