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Old 08-05-2004, 05:40 AM   #1
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Default Happy(?) birthday to me.

"I need to be honest with you. I enjoyed having you here and you're fun to be with, but I don't think this is going to work as a boyfriend kinda relationship. I do like you, and if you wish to remain as a friend I understand and am willing to do that, I just odn't think I feel the same spark that you do when we're together. I didn't know what to say. I don't want to hurt you, even though I know this is. But I didn't want to keep going and give you false ideas anymore."

EDIT: Well, after a talk with him, we're on good terms now. We're still not a couple, but as far as I'm concerned, he's too nice of a guy to tell him to fuck off. I can at least appreciate the fact that he was courteous enough to say that it just 'wasn't there', so to speak, early on rather than dragging things out and leading me on like a lot of guys would do.

On the bright side, I was talking with my mom last night and she basically implied that I'd be getting the majority of my gift(s) on Friday, her explanation being that "sometimes expensive stuff takes time to arrive." So, uh... yay... I think?
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Old 08-05-2004, 05:44 AM   #2
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Default Re: Crappy birthday to me.

> I don't know, I've always found the "I don't want to hurt
> you" line to be especially fucking hollow when they know
> damn well they're hurting you.

I guess just look at the not wanting to hurt you as a sign that he does care for you, even if it's not in the way you want.

But anyway, i'm sorry. I know how bad things like this hurt. Here's hoping things get better for ya.

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Old 08-05-2004, 08:10 AM   #3
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Shit dude, I'm really sorry to hear that. Hope shit feels better for you in the near future.

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