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Old 08-28-2009, 08:11 AM   #1
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Let me first state I am NOT a sex offender and not on a list anywhere.

Ok now in the other forum it was stated that Pachuka was on a sex offenders list for having sex with someone not of age, fine, he belongs on a sex offenders list. Problem is a LOT of people are on that list and you SHOULDN"T freak every time you know that.

I can see people thinking "Shawn, fuck you sex offenders are sick fucks" "Shawn, rapists are evil" "Shawn child molesters need to die"

Well as for rapists "real and not the kind made up by women with hurt feelings" yes they suck and should be locked up and same goes for Pedophiles "child molesters"


Now here's my point. I was reading an article a few years ago. The article was about the SCREWED up sex offenders list. You know how YOU can be on that list. You're all going to feel like shit when you read this if you didn't already know this.

To get on the list all you have to do "and some of you have done this stuff", on a date either kiss or touch a girls ass or breast without permission, streak, moon someone, urination in a public area "even when your back is to everyone or no one except the officer arresting you".

Yes you read all that right. You know if a hardassed judge decides you can be on a sex offenders list for any of those and a lot of people are. You realize that if you are 18 years and a day old and get in a fight with the girl you've been dating/sleeping with for let's say for 2 years and you piss her off and she is 17 yrs 364 days old at the time and calls the cops that you are a sex offender. Yes she could wreck your life.

So if any of you have been a little forward on a date and she seemed to give you every signal to go for a feel, had sex with a drunk girl who didn't remember getting naked and saying fuck me baby, been nude or pissed in public, you are IN THE EYES OF THE LAW a sex offender.

So next time you hear that phrase don't mentally freak out and think child molester. That person could very well have been raped by the fucked up regressive laws in this anal country we live in.

Also go and ask what they did before going around spreading rumors about the pedophile living in town since from what I hear only half are classified as pedophiles and calling someone that who may have just mooned the wrong person makes you a worse person than them since mooning, urinating in public "like on the side of a dirt road behind a tree", streaking, and kissing a girl without asking on a date, were are very normal and acceptable things to do in my time "I'm 46 for anyone that doesn't know already" and most of these things should NOT make you a sex offender in any way, shape, or form but our overzealous government has made it that and let the media push it more and more.

Now that you know this I'd like some responses and I'd also like you to tell others this so maybe we can get this bullshit database changed so only the REAL sex offenders get on this list as in pedophiles and rapist and I'll include people that flash genetals at children but not a single person that doesn't deserve it. Because putting an innocent "innocent of deed" on that list is immoral and should not be tolerated anymore than the people that deserve to be on that list.

Now if you hear something about the sex offenders list then tell others what I have told you and educate them and then they will educate others and then maybe this law will change or at least maybe the media will not use the word SEX OFFENDER as a word to generate sale/viewers when describing some guy that may have taken a leak on the side of the road.

If this is a little long sorry. This issue has been pissing me off for a while now.
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Old 08-28-2009, 01:55 PM   #2
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By odd coincidence, literally a few minutes before reading this I found out about someone having a related record. Your warning was therefore a very timely reminder that I shouldn't judge a person without knowing all the facts.
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Old 08-28-2009, 03:33 PM   #3
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Also go and ask what they did before going around spreading rumors about the pedophile living in town since from what I hear only half are classified as pedophiles and calling someone that who may have just mooned the wrong person makes you a worse person than them since mooning, urinating in public "like on the side of a dirt road behind a tree"..
It's true. I've been in the pokey a couple times on drug charges and anyway, you hear all the stories of dudes in there - especially the really unjust ones.

There was a man who was cited for peeing in public (utah has a lot of nature areas so not a big deal) and the judge ordered him to register on the sex offender site. He refused to be profiled like that and consequently was doing some serious time for violating that order.

It seems clear to me that they need to either make a less severe site for the more harmless indecent exposure cases or simply tighten the laws so harsh judges aren't able to do this to non-rapists.
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Old 08-28-2009, 07:56 PM   #4
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Honestly, I had a friend whom said he knew someone that had a problem, not unlike what you are describing. But it gets worse.

This person was dating a girl who was 17 at the time. He decided to wait until she turned 18 to have sex with her. He was 18 or 19 at the time, I can't remember which. In any case, he waits for her and they do end of having sex, of course! Then the girls parents being the amoral scum of society that they are... decide to have the girl lie and say she was 17 at the time.

The guy obviously got severely punished for it. His life ruined.

So fucked up but very true.

When will our government wake up and see that a failing system, is a failing system. I understand if it isn't broke don't fix it... but damn, this is obviously worse than I thought.

I don't know what else to say except that I am disgusted.
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Old 08-28-2009, 09:24 PM   #5
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Oddly enough a girl at work related something to me that disgusted me. A friend of hers is on it for being a petaphile but here's the twist. He was 22 and she was 15 and begging him to fuck her, everyone heard her say it several times during the day. Well he refused and started drinking with everyone else of age. She waited till he was basically shitfaced in the evening and got him alone and started doing stuff to work him up and eventually ended up blowing him. He later told her to stay away and she reported him for statutory rape and the state had no choice, since it didn't matter that he was drunk, or turned her down sober many times, or that she initiated it or that she reported him out of spite, you do it you are guilty no matter what.

There has to be a rule about slutty girls using the law against normally when even drunk lawbiding men that like him tried to push her away drunk. Some things done for so called justice are so immoral when looked at case by case.
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Old 09-15-2009, 07:47 PM   #6
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There shouldn't be a freaking list, anyway. If a person is a threat to the community, how about not releasing them until they're rehabilitated. And if they aren't a threat, then there's no reason for their name to be on some list. Further, sex offenders have the lowest recidivism rates of all criminals (except murderers, but high risk murderers almost never get released), and people who committed a non-sexual offense (anything from arson or assault to white collar crimes) are more likely to commit a rape after release than a registered sex offender.
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Old 09-15-2009, 11:47 PM   #7
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Further, sex offenders have the lowest recidivism rates of all criminals
This is actually true. I learned it in sex offender class. Oh, did I mention that I'm a registered sex offender? I actually meant to reply to this thread but forgot about it. I looked at pictures of a little girl's peepee on Kazaa.

Something that should be kept in mind is that who is required to register differs from state to state. I happen to live in one of the 3 strictest states as far as sex offender laws go, so I'm required to register. In the next state over, I'd be required to register for ten years but if nothing goes wrong during that period, no more registration. I've seen several states where I wouldn't be required to register at all, either because they only require violent offenders to register or because they don't require registration at all. (Actually, I think I"m a bit off there, most of them would require me to register, it's just that that information wouldn't be made public.)
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Old 09-16-2009, 12:04 AM   #8
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This is actually true. I learned it in sex offender class. Oh, did I mention that I'm a registered sex offender? I actually meant to reply to this thread but forgot about it. I looked at pictures of a little girl's peepee on Kazaa.
Sounds like that guy in England they tried to screw over. He used Google and hit a miss marked site and got barraged with pop-ups and viruses. He took his PC to get it fixed and the repair place turned him in because of the pop-ups.

Took him like 6 yrs, almost $100,000, and a career to get cleared and a lot of people still think he's a pedophile just because of a virus site and a Google search that didn't have anything to do with sex at all.

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Old 09-16-2009, 12:24 AM   #9
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You know, there were a couple of different people in prison who got busted with child pornography and they claimed that it came from a virus or popups. My response was generally this: I fully admit that I was looking at child pornography. I've been using the Internet for fifteen years and computers for several more than that. In all of that time, I couldn't find child pornography on the web *on purpose*, let alone on accident, so I call bullshit. (To be completely honest, there was *one* time that I found a pay site that purported to have child pornography on it, it was offline within 24 hours.)

Anybody that says they accidentally got child pornography on their computer is completely full of shit.
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Oh, did I mention that I'm a registered sex offender?
No, but it was what I was referring to earlier in the thread.
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