NES Netplay!! How do I do it?

[Danoz]

Okay, so my girlfriend and I want to play Bubble Bobble while I'm in D.C. and she's in New York. The question is... how do we do this? I have FCE Ultra and NNNesterJ, both have Netplay, and we are both using Windows Vista. When we're on the same network, I just plug in our "IPv4 Default Gateway" information, and it connects. When we are on different networks, this does not work. Normally I am the server and she is the server (in which case I type in nothing and she connects to me using that address, that works very well when we're both on the same network, but with her in New York and me in D.C... not working)

Any advice?
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