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ricardobaltazar
07-21-2003, 07:43 PM
So a month after she pulls the "I'm not going to talk to you because I want you to chase me so I feel loved" thing, my ex-girlfriend wants to have some major crisis conversation with me. Will it be:

A. Something I really don't want to know about, Esp. sex life stuff.
B. Angsty "I'm fighting with my friends, nobody loves me" conversation.
C. Something really is wrong and I'll feel like an ass for complaining.

Let's see...

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wingless
07-21-2003, 08:14 PM
> So a month after she pulls the "I'm not going to talk to you
> because I want you to chase me so I feel loved" thing, my
> ex-girlfriend wants to have some major crisis conversation
> with me. Will it be:

hahaha what a coinsidence. the other night i had a "maybe we shouldnt be around eachother 24/7 if you ignore me when we're with other people" talk with my boyfriend. we rarely have these big emotionally charged discussions, but he took it as me wanting to break up with him or something (admittedly, he HAD been drinking before we had the conversation. my timing could have been a LOT better). it ended up in him crying and me wanting a drink. i didnt drink (i honestly didnt want to), and weirdness ensued. i dont know if the issue is resolved or not, but he seems to think that it is... and i honestly dont know if it is.... i guess only time will tell. i dont know what's in his head, but i trust that he knows what he's doing. he doesnt have to explain it all to me. We typically handle things really well, so I dont have anything to worry about. okay, why did i just type all of that?

chicks dig the whole courtship thing. Alex used to write me love notes and hide them places, he used to buy me flowers, he used to hold me at night. now he gets up to get me a glass of water in the night and things like that. he says the feelings are the same, but the ways of showing them are different. frankly, i miss the notes and flowers! i understand his point, though. i know how he feels.... but chicks like the magical parts of relationships... which are usually just at the beginning (which was like 7 months for me). I dont complain, though. I appreciate all that I have. Not to say i dont miss the other things, though..... /wwwthreads/images/icons/tongue.gif

> A. Something I really don't want to know about, Esp. sex
> life stuff.
> B. Angsty "I'm fighting with my friends, nobody loves me"
> conversation.
> C. Something really is wrong and I'll feel like an ass for
> complaining.

well good luck with all of that! keep in mind to keep finger pointing out of things, dont accuse, alla that shit. lets us know what happens

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