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lord_steak
04-25-2003, 12:42 AM
I've got an oppurtunity to be PURE EVIL and get a revenge as-sweet-as-it-gets.

Okay, remember awhile back when I was telling youse guys about that ex- of mine who fucked my best friend? Well, she & I have resolved the matter, and continued on as friends. Granted, there are still residual feelings, but I'm ignoring them at every availible moment. Well, she's went and told me about her new crush. I keep on encouraging her to talk to him, but she's painfully shy. She's waiting for her best friend to do the action, but she's 2-3 hours away at a different college.

After a few days, I said "She's not gonna get anywhere waiting on her best friend," found the fellow, and told him a good deal of what's happening. He looked surprised and bewildered, and seemed to be trying to put pieces of the puzzle together. Well, when I went and told her, she got extrordinarily embarrassed and said she wanted to pummel me for going and spilling the beans. Upon her best friend finding out (and this is somebody I looked after as if she were my little sister in high school, the best friend that is), she went ape-shit. I mean, my ex-'s best friend utterly blew her top. She's threatening to not do anything, 'cuz I "fucked up everything." So, with the way m' ex- is mousy, she's trying to avoid the fellow for now.

She's too shy to even talk to him. Her best friend won't do anything now, so, all of it now rests on my hands. If I can hook her up, she'll be out of my hair at last. That's the goal.

However, my devious little brain sees an oppurtunity to <u>make her suffer</u> for the shit she pulled earlier (already dealt with my best friend; we're cool again). I can lead her through the Grand Deception the same way she led me, only make everything go kaboom in her face at the very end. Exact methods will NOT be discussed here.

Not sure which would be better. She damn near killed with what she did, and this'd get the point across about the pain she caused, but I normally do not enjoy being cruel. The recovering Trekkie part of me quotes the Klingon proverb that revenge is a dish which is best served cold. I get the feeling I'll regret it sooner or later though. Can't decide; I'm in the grey area when things should be black or white.

What's you guys' opinion on the matter? Be her Knight of Fortune, or be her Knight of Doom? (God, I gotta stop taking my major everywhere I go).

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Lobster Cowboy
04-25-2003, 12:45 AM
be her knight of leaving her alone

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Dark Macc
04-25-2003, 12:51 AM
For as much as I love the sweet, sweet nectar of revenge, I have to ask you something. Is it really worth fucking up her life? Is she really your friend?

I think you should be the better person and help her out. <img src=smilies/sleep.gif>

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type_x
04-25-2003, 12:55 AM
> What's you guys' opinion on the matter? Be her Knight of
> Fortune, or be her Knight of Doom? (God, I gotta stop taking
> my major everywhere I go).
>

The only suitable revenge on a schemin ex is "tough love"- pulling hair, ass smacking, playing the villain during sex and then not calling for a week or two. Anything else won't really get you shit. <img src=smilies/thumb.gif>

Whatever you do don't help her to scam other guys...

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SpaceTiger
04-25-2003, 05:13 AM
I agree with LC, don't do shit. You don't owe her anything and it won't help things to spite her. Personally, I think you should just tell her to never speak to you again because continuing to be friends with somebody like that just encourages their behavior.

What is she learning? She's learning that she can fuck up whoever's life she wants and just get away with it. She needs to suffer, but in a way that will seem justified. Otherwise, she'll be able to convince herself that YOU are the bad guy and nothing will be achieved.

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Disch
04-25-2003, 05:43 AM
> Well, when I went and told her, she got
> extrordinarily embarrassed and said she wanted to pummel me
> for going and spilling the beans.

I would too. You put her in a really awkward position. I'd be super pissed if someone did that to me.

> Upon her best friend
> finding out (and this is somebody I looked after as if she
> were my little sister in high school, the best friend that
> is), she went ape-shit. I mean, my ex-'s best friend
> utterly blew her top. She's threatening to not do anything,
> 'cuz I "fucked up everything."

Sounds like you did to me. She told you something in confidence... not only did you blabber about it to the one person she was hiding the info from... but you also got word to her best friend (whom apparenly she didn't want the info to get to either). I'd be suprised if she trusted you with anything after this. I wouldn't if I was in her shoes.

> So, with the way m' ex- is
> mousy, she's trying to avoid the fellow for now.

Understandable.

Embarrassment + awkward = stress + anxiety = no fun = hide

> She's too shy to even talk to him. Her best friend won't do
> anything now, so, all of it now rests on my hands. If I can
> hook her up, she'll be out of my hair at last.

Maybe I'm understanding this wrong... but isn't that what you already tried to do?

Keep your nose out of it. She apparently doesn't want you involved. Your continuous meddling will only make things worse. That's what I see anyway.

> However, my devious little brain sees an oppurtunity to make
> her suffer for the shit she pulled earlier

If you can consider such acts as this, there's still a lot of tension between you two. Maybe you should just avoid her... since you seem to still be carrying a grudge.

In any case... revenge will just destroy what's left of the relationship... and who needs more enemies? I'd rather just fall out of touch with people than have them look at me with hatred whenever I see them.

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Dark Macc
04-25-2003, 08:39 AM
Disch, you seem to be out for blood tonight <img src=smilies/freak3.gif>

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lord_steak
04-25-2003, 12:25 PM
> Would you want her doing that to you?
>

Leading me around through the Grand Deception only to smash my heart to tiny pieces at the end when all was revealed. No, I didn't want her to do that, but she <u>did</u>. That's the point.

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lord_steak
04-25-2003, 01:46 PM
> I would too. You put her in a really awkward position. I'd
> be super pissed if someone did that to me.

Perhaps I didn't make myself clear.

I'm trying to move on in my life. I'm pursuing somebody else that I've had my eye on for quite awhile. She's got this crush, and REFUSES to do anything about it, and would rather hang on to me. I don't want her to hang on to me. I'd rather her do something to pursue her crush, but she's just too damn shy. I didn't search the fellow out. I bumped into him on the street, protesting the war. I begin to talk to him because I see certain buttons on his hat that are cool. I ask him about them, and where he got them from. He answers. A few political jokes pass between us.

Converstaion's already started, and here's the chance to *finally* get her off my back. Had you been in my shoes, what would you do?

> Sounds like you did to me.

What makes you say that?

> She told you something in
> confidence...

Incorrect assumption. Among those of us who talk to her it's well-known.

> (whom apparenly she didn't want the info
> to get to either).

Her best friend wants to see all communication between her and I silenced again.

> Maybe I'm understanding this wrong... but isn't that what
> you already tried to do?

If at first you don't suceed....

> Keep your nose out of it. She apparently doesn't want you
> involved. Your continuous meddling will only make things
> worse. That's what I see anyway.

The way her best friend was going about would've set them up on an all-but blind date. As I said, I'm trying to be her friend, and with what all has happened, it's very difficult to look at her as just a friend. But I'm trying. If I were to leave the situation now, everything would fall apart.

As for the deal about the all-but blind date, I've never heard of a lasting relationship coming out of one. Which means it'd be short. Which means she'll be hurt BAD. Not good. If something were to become of it at all, and for her to have a lasting relationship with a fellow I find to be pretty cool, then they might wish to know each other a little better than hi-my-name-is first.

> In any case... revenge will just destroy what's left of the
> relationship... and who needs more enemies? I'd rather just
> fall out of touch with people than have them look at me with
> hatred whenever I see them.

Well then, I've come to my decision. I'm gonna help.

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StormsInHerEyes
04-25-2003, 01:57 PM
No Way! What are you mad?! Yes, it sounds sweet in the beginning, but if you have any heart, you'll know the truth and the best move to make. It's like this.. you either suck it up and be the good guy, of have to spend the rest of your life feeling sick to your stomach over how much of an ass you were... over the look in her eyes, over her crying... that's something that *you're going to have to live with* and is the two seconds of pure bliss worth all the pain and the hate for yourself forever? You know it's not a smart move.. I hope you make the right decision...

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Disch
04-25-2003, 06:11 PM
> Incorrect assumption. Among those of us who talk to her
> it's well-known.

Alright... I misunderstood the situation then ^_^

Sorry about all that... but I still feel that revenge is a bad dish any way you serve it.<img src=smilies/biggthumpup.gif>

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lord_steak
04-25-2003, 06:59 PM
> Sorry about all that... but I still feel that revenge is a
> bad dish any way you serve it.
>

A bad "Disch," right? <img src=smilies/cwm27.gif><img src=smilies/erm.gif> That was just...stupid.

Anyway!! as I said, I've decided I'm gonna help out where I can.

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maq112k2
04-25-2003, 08:41 PM
> What's you guys' opinion on the matter? Be her Knight of
> Fortune, or be her Knight of Doom? (God, I gotta stop taking
> my major everywhere I go).

Don't do anything that makes people feel like shit. Trust me, it may feel all funny and make you happy in the beginning, but when you realize the pain you put others through, it'll hit you like a ton of bricks to the groin.

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Disch
04-25-2003, 10:54 PM
The more I read of your posts.. the more you frighten me. <img src=smilies/erm.gif>

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Lobster Cowboy
04-26-2003, 03:36 AM
i'd say you've become the master of the 'soft answer'

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SpaceTiger
04-26-2003, 03:51 AM
> try something intelligent, like be a friend to her.

I dunno about you, but those aren't the kind of friends I keep. /wwwthreads/images/icons/tongue.gif


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Dark Macc
04-26-2003, 04:36 AM
Blu, pull out 'thy stick' <img src=smilies/magbiggrin.gif>

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Disch
04-26-2003, 05:48 AM
> Blu, pull out 'thy stick'


You better be more specific... or things could get really messy<img src=smilies/erm.gif>

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Dark Macc
04-26-2003, 06:47 AM
> You better be more specific... or things could get really
> messy

Thy clue stick...<img src=smilies/freak3.gif>

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lord_steak
04-28-2003, 12:14 PM
> yes. make her suffer.
>
> and prove to all of us that you're a fucking waste of human
> flesh.

Right...somebody apparently didn't read the rest of the thread before responding....

> try something intelligent, like be a friend to her.
>

Yes, I'm giving it a whirl.

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Narvick
04-28-2003, 08:46 PM
I'm all for revenge, and women like that are what make me hate them. Make her suffer.

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sephiroth111
04-29-2003, 03:07 AM
> I'm all for revenge, and women like that are what make me
> hate them. Make her suffer.
>

i am the master of treat as you wish to be treated. however she bitched you out so payback is a bitch, but revenge is a mother fucker

keep this in mind.

btw, i do not condone any evil acts that you do, just giving you an opinion.

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shawn
05-02-2003, 11:58 AM
> I did. check out the timestamps. I posted before you made
> your reply saying that you weren't going to be a dick.
>

Actually you didn't MB, his is marked 8 hrs previous to yours, and in flat mode his post is 4 replies before yours. <img src=smilies/cwm11.gif>

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lord_steak
05-02-2003, 04:29 PM
Okay, I managed to find the fellow again. Talked to him briefly. He said he's interested in getting to know her, and hanging out and such. He said he's gonna wait for when her best friend gets back to talk (I imagine that's to reduce the nervous tension of not knowing what the hell to say).

Well then! If I can't get together with whom I've been after, at least I can help my friends along.

What I find quite funny is that he seems to be just as shy as she is.

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