Advice

[ricardobaltazar]

My girlfriend gives me plenty of oral sex but I feel selfish because I haven't done it for her. She's never done it before because she feels uncomfortable about that area of her body. She wants to try it and I could use some advice on what I can do to help her relax and feel comfortable. Some female perspective would be especially helpful. <img src=smilies/thumb.gif>

Did I really just make this post?

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[SwampGas]

my ex was shy as well. don't mention it..don't press the issue...

wait a month.

at the end of april, just go down on her. don't tell her. kiss kiss kiss, move down to chest. yadda yadda yadda. move down to stomach. yadda yadda yadda...and then you're there.

remember to go through your ABCs with your tongue. they like the wiggly letters the best.

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[shawn]

If she won't be totally grossed out by it *some woman are*, let her watch a pron movie with a guy going down on a woman and let her see how good it feels to another woman, she might get so horny that she just shoves your face right down there, and some cherry flavored motion lotion might be nice to *it heats up when you blow on it*. <img src=http://carbonize.co.uk/Yahoo/basefaces/07.gif>

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[puduhead]

Doing a really good job giving a woman oral pleasure has an uncanny way of changing her perspective about it. <img src=smilies/thumb.gif>

Try the shower... where everything's nice and clean and wet. or use some of that flavored lotion like Shawn suggested.

Above all, I'd say make sure you're really into it yourself. It makes a huge difference IMO. And I guess when it comes down to it, some chicks just don't get into that. <img src=smilies/erm.gif> what a shame.

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[WhyteKnight]

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more golden advice from love masta shawn <img src=smilies/cwm11.gif>

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[wingless]

> Did I really just make this post?

as much as i hate to even think about this subject when my brother's in the conversation... i'd have to agree with him. how much you're into it really makes a huge difference. i'm not too into receiving, myself, but i certainly have my preferences. i'm not sure how many girls agree with me on this

*john, this is where you stop reading* hehehe.



like Sam suggested, kiss and work your way down. i like it when alex works his way down, but then works his way back up before doing anything. give her a full experience. kiss everywhere! go all the way down... down her legs and back up again, closely avoiding "that spot". kiss and lick around the inner thighs really close to.. err.. that.. spot. start out really lightly around her *oh gosh i hate this*... clit. try just kissing there a little first, and progress into kissing/licking. i'm a huge fan of focussing on the clit itself. there's no way i could get off on tongue being inside of me. its okay and all, but... its just that... "okay". this might be different for other girls, i dont know. this might sound weird, i dunno... but i really like it when, a bit into it, there's sucking... like on the clit. heh, uhh yeah i really like that. if you can, with your hands caress her body... that's really nice. if she seems comfortable enough, you might want to try inserting a finger or two. am i getting graphic enough? heheh.

i rarely climax from a guy going down on me, but i really enjoy it. she may climax, she may not. whatever happens, make sure she's very comfortable with everything. an uncomfortable experience early on could turn her off to it completely. you need to be comfortable too!

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(i cant believe i just made this post, too. heheh)

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[wingless]

> let her watch a pron movie with a guy going down on a woman
> she might get so horny that she just shoves your face right
> down there

i honestly, seriously doubt that'd happen... especially with a first-timer who is already a little cautious about it. people in porn always act like its so much better than it really is. any woman with a brain wouldnt see that and go: "oh, it feels that good?"... i'd expect any woman of ricardo's to have a pretty decent brain.

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