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puduhead
03-03-2003, 09:02 AM
I'd just like to point out that the Diary board has been, IMO, a success. I know what it's like to be on a message board with lots of dead boards due to over-specialization and/or lack of users. But ever since this board was formed, at least 2 positive things happened that I'm aware of:

1) People that complained about all the super-personal shit being on TOTT were satisfied.
2) Diaries, while not as high-volume as TOTT, consistantly proved to be an added value to a decent percentage of the active users, including some of our high-ranking staff. People use it.

/ZMD political propaganda <font size=1>(if that blurb gets me in trouble with any of the powers that be, I'll edit it out of this post, no problem)</font> <img src=smilies/thumb.gif>

<u>And now for my diary entry</u>:
I usually do this stuff on my xanga (http://www.xanga.com/johndietzel) but sometimes it's nice to blab about your personal shit to a different crowd, although some of you are on both.

Anyway, not unlike our resident Brad, but perhaps further along the evolution path, I sometimes struggle with being me. There's like at least 2 major parts to this:

1) Finding out for myself *who* I am. i.e. what I like/dislike/tolerate etc...
2) Being comfortable enough to naturally express the results of #1 to other people.

Being philisophical is hard work so I sometimes prefer a drunken stupor. Where would I be without my sense of obligation to other people? That feeling that I can't let them down in their estimations of me? I think I can answer this - I'd be pure evil, like something out of a horror movie... only, good looking. <img src=smilies/magbiggrin.gif> So basically Johnny Depp starring as the antagonist in a horror movie. With who as my enemy? Answer: Who not?

I guess I'm either a pretty messed up person or just need to stop questioning things. I'm trying to do my part. I get laid, get drunk, engage in mindless fun such as LAN parties. But my analysis remains. And the end result always points to some major "defect" of my character... A defect because it has to be! Who wants evil to reign the earth or whatever? I don't even! except for myself... A major contradiction.

Before I confuse the point: I don't want people to get murdered, puppy dogs to get killed, stupid drama shit to occur. That's not the evil I refer to. It's more like I just don't want to "be good." With the forced nature of my religious upbringing, I abhor (ab·hor - To regard with horror or loathing) <img src=smilies/laff.gif> the implied morality of "being good." What is that anyway? I imagine I could get tons of generic bullshit replies to that question. Save it for someone who's new to the game. I guess I'm getting at that I prefer the goodness of an individual, including myself, to be somewhat of a mystery. Like I'm trying to hide the fact that I actually am more or less a good person. The appearance of evil is so much more comforting to me and I'm not talking about some bullshit image game like Goth or whatever. I think I'm tired of people posturing to prove to others that they are so great, wonderful, moral, etc... So it's like I want a reverse psychology - I AM EVIL! get it? I hope not.

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icenine0
03-03-2003, 05:51 PM
I have two modus operandi,

1. Thinking with words, questioning each of my actions, and trying in each situation to rationally choose the best path.

and

2. Emptying my mind, acting without thought, and trusting my emotions to steer me in the right direction.

1 often leads me to self-doubt and endless circles of useless internal questioning. "Was the the right choice? Was their a better choice? Would anyone else think that was a good choice?". When I've tried it in the past, it's led to depression, fear, and isolation.

2 generally leaves me a lot happier. I'm carefree, I go with the flow and instinctively do whatever's necessary to satisfy my internal state at the time. I find that I'm pretty good about not hurting people this way either... it seems like a nice way to peacefully coexist with others and myself. However, I feel devoid of direction and personal growth, like I'm floating in space reliving the same circumstances and not developing at all.

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SwampGas
03-03-2003, 10:53 PM
> I'd just like to point out that the Diary board has been,
> IMO, a success. I know what it's like to be on a message
> board with lots of dead boards due to over-specialization
> and/or lack of users. But ever since this board was formed,
> at least 2 positive things happened that I'm aware of:

it's been my firm believe that "less is more" and "moderation is necessary." that's why zmd isn't the same bullshit find (http://www.retrogames.com>you</a>) else (http://www.elazulspad.com>everywhere</a>).

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