Goku
07-27-2002, 06:20 AM
Seems like im saying fucken alot lately. Well heres my story anyway.
First off, i did end up having fun during the night, so it wasnt such a joke - but i was a butt of a cruel joke (or, either that, the receiving end of a very inconsiderate gesture).
IM drunk btw.
So, this girl begs me to go to the club with her for her friends birthday party. I dont know this friend. But she wont keep me off the back. So, i decide to go. Guess what, she has a bf. Im expected to watch them grope and neck each other in public at a club - yeah right. Well i actually took off *L*. Still very inconsiderate.
The history: She actually asked me out awhile before that. I went out with her. She tried to kiss me, i hesitated. My gut told me somthing was wrong - found out i was right. Besides, Quasius may not believe me, but i am very conservative in the relationship portion of my life. I have certain morals and values ingrained into me. BTW, it wouldnt have been such a problem if she TOLD me she had a bfriend. Atleast i would have known and her flirting would not have been so bad. I would have known where i stood and wouldnt have been mislead
Oh yeah, i know this is kinda incoherant and disordered, but when i was there, i was almost ignored. Well, she and her friends spoke spanish to each other - i dont speak spanish, so...kinda difficult to get into a conversation eh?
But, well, considering all this, i had a good night. I wouldnt trade it for the world. I had a good night observing people and met this cool american from NY!!!!! So that was fun. It got fun when i ditched them *L* They can dish it out, but i dont have to stay and take it. I learned that. recnetly. Makes life alot easier!!!!!!!!!. To realize it is fucked up, and you can either take it up the ass, or get the hell out of there!!!!!!!!!!! OH well, im happy now that i vented!
Maybe, im not perfectly innocent here, but, i think in the very least i deserved to be told she had a BF. *L* when i broached the subject to both of them separately, it got an interesting response. Shes the guys girlfriend according to him, and according to her, shes seeing him! *L* Interesting, very interesting.
Well, i guess the moral of the story here is trust your gut. And, btw, i know not all women are like this. There are some very good women out there that will respect a guy. There are women out there that a guy can fall madly and deeply in love with, marry, and stay together for a long time. WHen the guy looses her, he soon goes after. There are some very good women out there - so im sorry to the women of the board if i gave the wrong impression and insulted them.
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First off, i did end up having fun during the night, so it wasnt such a joke - but i was a butt of a cruel joke (or, either that, the receiving end of a very inconsiderate gesture).
IM drunk btw.
So, this girl begs me to go to the club with her for her friends birthday party. I dont know this friend. But she wont keep me off the back. So, i decide to go. Guess what, she has a bf. Im expected to watch them grope and neck each other in public at a club - yeah right. Well i actually took off *L*. Still very inconsiderate.
The history: She actually asked me out awhile before that. I went out with her. She tried to kiss me, i hesitated. My gut told me somthing was wrong - found out i was right. Besides, Quasius may not believe me, but i am very conservative in the relationship portion of my life. I have certain morals and values ingrained into me. BTW, it wouldnt have been such a problem if she TOLD me she had a bfriend. Atleast i would have known and her flirting would not have been so bad. I would have known where i stood and wouldnt have been mislead
Oh yeah, i know this is kinda incoherant and disordered, but when i was there, i was almost ignored. Well, she and her friends spoke spanish to each other - i dont speak spanish, so...kinda difficult to get into a conversation eh?
But, well, considering all this, i had a good night. I wouldnt trade it for the world. I had a good night observing people and met this cool american from NY!!!!! So that was fun. It got fun when i ditched them *L* They can dish it out, but i dont have to stay and take it. I learned that. recnetly. Makes life alot easier!!!!!!!!!. To realize it is fucked up, and you can either take it up the ass, or get the hell out of there!!!!!!!!!!! OH well, im happy now that i vented!
Maybe, im not perfectly innocent here, but, i think in the very least i deserved to be told she had a BF. *L* when i broached the subject to both of them separately, it got an interesting response. Shes the guys girlfriend according to him, and according to her, shes seeing him! *L* Interesting, very interesting.
Well, i guess the moral of the story here is trust your gut. And, btw, i know not all women are like this. There are some very good women out there that will respect a guy. There are women out there that a guy can fall madly and deeply in love with, marry, and stay together for a long time. WHen the guy looses her, he soon goes after. There are some very good women out there - so im sorry to the women of the board if i gave the wrong impression and insulted them.
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