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ricardobaltazar
06-12-2002, 03:40 AM
Let me tell you about it. This girl is the best, it's great. We enjoy practically all the same things and make a great pair of weed smoking, thrift store shopping hippies. I've completely worked up the courage to tell her how I feel. The problem is that she is gone for three months in Alaska. Being reasonable, I decide that I should wait to see how things play out and make my move when she comes back.

Then it happens. My high school girlfriend randomly shows up one day (this is really random being as she goes to school in Nebraska now) and things get hot and heavy. Things are getting serious between us but I know that it can't last because she's leaving at the end of the summer and there's no way we would try a long distance relationship (again). I feel really unethical about having anything with my ex knowing in the back of my mind that the girl I am really right for is only gone temporarily. At the same time I am single and I think I'll go mad staying celibate for the entire summer. (This is the first time I've gotten any in about 9 months mind you.) I am seriously going out of my mind. <img src=smilies/errrr.gif>

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Geno
06-12-2002, 03:46 AM
this is not a uncommon problem my friend.
all that you really need to do is do whatever you feel is right.
if staying Single for the summer is what needs to be done, then do so. but if you feel that your gonna give your Ex another chance then, i suppose so, just don't fall into something that could ruin it for you and this other chick.
just some advice from a <img src=smilies/freak3.gif> guy who's had to make these desicions so much in his life that its overwhelming.


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icenine0
06-12-2002, 04:11 AM
> At the same time I am single and I think I'll go mad staying celibate for the entire summer.

Well choose one of em' and, if you're not getting any for a while, use ol' lefty. <img src=smilies/biggthumpup.gif>

It's the best advice I could come up with, so sue me.

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ricardobaltazar
06-12-2002, 04:14 AM
> Well choose one of em' and, if you're not getting any for a
> while, use ol' lefty.

Dude, that's like my hobby though. If I do it anymore than I all ready am, I think I'll die. <img src=smilies/errrr.gif>

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Vampiro
06-12-2002, 08:06 AM
> entire summer. (This is the first time I've gotten any in
> about 9 months mind you.) I am seriously going out of my
> mind.
>

Act like a man ya wussy! some of us aint been getting *it* for years.
what's 9 months compared to a nice relationship..

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ricardobaltazar
06-12-2002, 08:36 AM
>dont sacrifice the good you've got just
> to chase a skirt. no thinking with the little head
>

Yeah, that's the conclusion I'm starting to come to. <img src=smilies/hearton.gif>

Must resist fact that ex is an animal in bed... <img src=smilies/errrr.gif>

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Maxwell Murder
06-12-2002, 08:42 AM
> Must resist fact that ex is an animal in bed...
>
Send her my way.
<img src=smilies/thumb.gif>

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ricardobaltazar
06-12-2002, 08:44 AM
> > Must resist fact that ex is an animal in bed...
> >
> Send her my way.
>

<img src=smilies/flipa.gif>

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Narvi
06-12-2002, 08:58 AM
> Act like a man ya wussy! some of us aint been getting *it*
> for years.
> what's 9 months compared to a nice relationship..
>

Hah hah hah! Yes! Right on!

I learned my lesson the hard way. I was in a great relationship and then it got really fucked up and that's a different story. But, after about 2 months of not getting any, I went with a few of my more social friends to a house party and hooked up with this girl who I just met. HUGE MISTAKE! It was not what I wanted. I couldn't wait to leave after the deed was done. I never saw her again either. I feel terrible about it too. I have so many regrets about doing that. That was a year and a half ago. I haven't been laid since. I'm waiting to get into a nice relationship before I get intimate with a girl again.

To sum up.
Sex with girlfriend = <img src=smilies/thumb.gif>
Sex with random girl = <img src=smilies/headshake.gif>

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ricardobaltazar
06-12-2002, 09:01 AM
> To sum up.
> Sex with girlfriend =
> Sex with random girl =
>
Yeah, this is kind of a grey area since it's my ex-girlfriend but I see your point though. Maybe I'll just join a monastary for the next 2 1/2 months.

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ricardobaltazar
06-13-2002, 12:13 AM
> I'm not sure I understand....love is hard for you since you
> are 'hot and heavy' with your ex? If that's the case, it's
> your own fault, no offense.

Yeah, I'm pretty much just cursing myself for being a dumb guy. I blame no one but myself.


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