normally i'd have some sort of pithy comment, but i feel for you man. it took me a loooooong time before i finally felt comfortable with the ladies. and i'm cute!
when i was in high school, i couldn't find the nerve to ask any girls out. i was in love with one of my classmates, but she was too busy dating some oaf to notice me. i was friends with a lot of girls, but enver imagined that any of them might have liked me. it was a mess.
anyway, i learned something along the way---girls are just as nervous as you are, and most of the time have less self esteem. unlike you, women are bombarded daily by things like Cosmo or shows like the swan. it's pretty bad.
from what i've experience, women aren't looking for brad pitt. he makes for excellent eye candy, but women rarely seem to want that in real life. women like confidence, and they like genuine masculinity (don't confuse that for machismo). for the most part, they'll take security over looks and charm. while orlando bloom can look spiffy, he can't do everyday manly things like kill bugs, fix something, or take charge of a situation. it's THESE qualies that women find sexy. while the women's lib movement might say differently, women seem to like it when a guy can take care of them (and please note the difference between taking care of, and controlling. they ARE NOT one and the same).
of course, there are shallow women out there, who either want a big dick, a pretty face, or both. you probably don't want them anyway, so don't worry if they reject you. stick to the girls that are nice, and who please your eye. if you look at women as normal people, and not frightening demigods, you'll see that they're just like you---the same fears, the same foibles, the same uncertainties.
also, don't feel bad about not having kissed a girl yet. i didn't do that until i was 19, and i turned out fine. some people are just slow starters, so there's no timetable for that sort of thing. do it when the moment presents itself. believe me, once you start kissing members of the opposite sex, it'll happen much more often. the same with sex, but that's a topic for another time. gotta learn to walk before you can run.
if you want love, just work on being the best you can be for yourself...i guarantee something will come your way. but just make sure you turn THOUGHT into ACTION. like wayne gretsky once said, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
good luck, bro
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