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The 9th Sage
05-13-2004, 07:48 PM
*cut cut snip snip copy and paste from Xanga again**This is from my Xanga site, I typed it up last night. I really don't know why my life is so much like an evil soap opera*

Now I don't know what the hell is going to happen in my life.

An Explanation is required.

First of all, Julie got kicked out by her roommates. We both
really DON'T know why. They gave her a letter saying that
she had to get out because she was controlling their life.

How? We really can't say, because they didn't fucking tell
her! If anything, they were controlling her life because
they made it so damn hard for her to get into the fucking
apartment. Yeah, you could have taken two seconds to let us
in before you went to the movies you assholes. Next time,
don't pretend that you're my friend. Thanks for contributing
to my declining faith in humanity.

And so, we don't know where she's gonna stay. She and I are
trying everything we can think of. Her grandma Grace (she's
such a nice lady) is letting her stay there for a few days, but
after that we don't know...I fear for her and our child. I
don't know what we're going to do.

Second of all, I finally told my mom she was pregnant. I didn't
yet because I was afraid of her freaking out and doing something
stupid.

Which naturally, because she's my wonderful and loving mother,
she did.

So, I got reamed a new one and my mother is ashamed of me (really,
I'm not being dramatic...she as much as said so) and according to
her, "You're not to tell anyone." about this (Julie being pregnant).
My dad and her said some kind of hateful things to me in the moment,
like when I said in desperation " But I am your SON!" trying to get dad to
talk to me when he was leaving into his bedroom, he said something like
'yeah, unfortunatly.' At least he talked to me some later, but why do I
deserve this? For the love of god, why? Oh yeah, and my mom keeps
pretty much calling Julie a slut, and asking me if it's my child, and
telling me that I need to get a paternity test...AAAAAAAAAH! Just shut
the fuck up god damn you! You idiot! God, why can't you just take my
word for it? I KNOW it's my kid for a fact! Good fucking lord!

The next day (on the night of which I'm typing this), after work Julie
called (she said she was going to have a nice talk with my mom). I pleaded
with her the day before to please stay calm and not say anything too bad
to her because it'd make things worse. Well guess what?

She told my mom she was being a bitch, and although that's a true statement,
mom has now forbidden me from talking to her (thank you, you fucking bitch) and
actually is sleeping with the phone tonight so I can't talk to ANYone, let alone
Julie.

Let us recap...

My honey is pregnant, with our child, and is more or less homeless because of her
damned roommates, may they rot in the depths of hell.

My mom hates me.

I can't talk to my honey who is pregnant and practically homeless because my mom
hates me and is a bitch.

Why do I deserve this? All I want is a good life with my girlfriend and a loving
family. Why aren't I allowed this? What have I DONE?! I really do think that
somehow there's some god that hates me out there. I try to be a nice person to
everyone that I meet, yet I'm taken advantage of and smashed by the gnarled hands
of fate. I guess it's certain that Karma doesn't exist.

Oh, and I feel the last of my faith in humanity that I've tried so hard to keep with me
has been utterly destroyed today. I feel empty inside. I wonder if this is
why I feel so numb right now?

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CEpeep
05-13-2004, 08:35 PM
Not trying to piss you off, but you should have told your parents sooner. Keeping it a secret from them didn't help anything. Not that you can do anything about it now, but were you sure that this was the best time to have a child? People who have children whitout being certain that they can raise it into a loving, stable household always astound me with their lack of foresight. I'm sure you already know all this, so I'll stop being preachy. Best of luck, and I hope everything works out for you in the end. <img src=smilies/thumb.gif>

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The 9th Sage
05-13-2004, 08:46 PM
> Not trying to piss you off, but you should have told your
> parents sooner. Keeping it a secret from them didn't help
> anything. Not that you can do anything about it now, but
> were you sure that this was the best time to have a child?

No, it's not. OK? But you know what? It has happened and I'm not going to abandon her because of it. Oh, and my mom...she'd have reacted this way NO MATTER WHAT. Trust me on this. I know her.

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Kijutsu
05-13-2004, 09:20 PM
> No, it's not. OK? But you know what? It has happened and
> I'm not going to abandon her because of it. Oh, and my
> mom...she'd have reacted this way NO MATTER WHAT. Trust me
> on this. I know her.

Sounds like you got yourself into a bit of a pickle my friend.

I'm not sure what your or her financial situation is, (and it's none of my business) but I thinks it might be time to simply GTFO and find yourselves a rental home/apartment. I know it may tend to put some plans on hold, but it occurs to me that it's that, or terminating the pregnacy. Of which I really don't think you want to do the later, but I'm not sure.

That's my suggestion. Good luck. And I hope things start looking up for you and Julie very soon.
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Fla Flash
05-14-2004, 03:06 AM
*whap*

Wrong. Parents are always adversarial when it comes to unwed parents. I know. I'm a parent.

Sometimes telling a parent is the worse thing to do.

My old friend, believe in yourself and the girl. Go forth and forge your own future. I believe in you.

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Lobster Cowboy
05-14-2004, 03:47 AM
you, sir, are a retard.

get a job, get some balls, and take your woman where you can be happy. stop whining about your idiot parents, and just accept them for what they are: uncaring, thoughtless fools. you need to put your faith into people who've earned your trust, and even though they're your parents, they're not exempt from this. do you think just because they got drunk and fucked one night in the early 80s to make you, they have the right to control you? think again.

you need to grow a large set of balls, friend. everything you type screams "i'm a pussy, take advantage of me!" you are a free, sentient being. act like one. if things suck major ass, get off your duff and fix them. the more i hear you whine "oh, why has god forsaken me? why does everyone hate me" the more i want to strangle you.

you are a drippy pussy, and you always will be until you shake off those who suck away your life's blood. listen to flash. the motherfucker is right on the money.

if this post pisses you off, good. maybe it'll influence you to prove me wrong.

godspeed, lad

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The 9th Sage
05-18-2004, 08:56 PM
My old friend, believe
> in yourself and the girl. Go forth and forge your own
> future. I believe in you.

I'm trying. Unfortunatly, this is making me lose my resolve...I need to get it back. But thank you everybody.


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The 9th Sage
05-18-2004, 08:58 PM
> you, sir, are a retard.

Thanks.

> "oh, why has god forsaken me? why does everyone
> hate me" the more i want to strangle you.

How absolutely wonderful for you.

> you are a drippy pussy, and you always will be until you
> shake off those who suck away your life's blood. listen to
> flash. the motherfucker is right on the money.

Maybe, but he was much more...I don't know, eloquent.

> if this post pisses you off, good. maybe it'll influence
> you to prove me wrong.
>
> godspeed, lad

Actually, I think it's just pissing me off, but thank you for trying, ass. Maybe I should just keep my problems to myself and stop whining. Then you wouldn't have to read my totally optional post that you DIDN'T HAVE TO READ. I'm sure you're just saying this for the sake OF pissing me off, so I guess it's working. It doesn't mean I have to like it. This is obviously quite a sore subject for me. And if I'm overdramatic, it's my buisness dammit. http://www.zophar.net/wwwthreads/smilies/magbiggrin.gif

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The 9th Sage
05-18-2004, 09:24 PM
Thank you for letting my overdramatic self vent. Yeah, we need to get together and talk about our plans for everything. It's not like I can just change EVERYTHING in one day though. Things often take time.

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Narvick
05-19-2004, 01:29 PM
Damn, I'm sorry. The one thing I've learned in life is this: shit happens. We hate it, it sucks, and people are generally to blame for it, but shit happens regardless. While I myself have not experienced these types of things firsthand, I have close relationships with people who do. It's sick :P

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