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The 9th Sage
03-22-2004, 06:11 PM
My girlfriend and I had a fight, and I don't really know how to explain it, so go to my Xanga site if you're interested in hearing more. The addy should be in my profile.

I don't know how to deal with it right now. I feel so fried...it doesn't help that I got very little sleep last night because of it. Love can cause pain as well as joy...it's like I learned from Princess Emeraude (geek mode kicking in now), "Happiness and Sadness are as one."
But seriously, I'm in a world of hurt right now. This sucks. I don't know which way is up at the moment.

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shawn
03-22-2004, 09:17 PM
I would definitely find out why she thinks this. It could be psychological scars left over from the last guy, it could be someone said something to her that was something they misinterpreted or an outright lie for thier own reasons.
I wouldn't take it lightly but don't let it eat you up since the balls in her court at the moment but if you can get her to open up and tell you her reasons for this fear of hers it will be the key to everything and let you sooth her fears once and for all.

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Gil-Galad
03-23-2004, 08:58 PM
I wonder is this a long distance relationship or one close to you because that could make a difference in understand what's going on.

Not to mention that she is probally thinking about the relationship in a way that you dont understand. Which this has happened to me and I didnt understand it at all at the time.

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Kuikorosu
03-23-2004, 09:23 PM
> This sucks. I don't know which way is up at the moment.

Try this. While sitting upright in your chair, tilt your head back approximately 90 degrees. You should be looking up at that point.

So, um, if you need anymore assistance and use cliche metaphors, I'll be happy to make fun of you, I mean help out. <img src=smilies/magbiggrin.gif>

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The 9th Sage
03-29-2004, 06:39 PM
Well, everything is alright now. We worked it out. Although we still have some problems, eh, nothing I want to talk about here (it's of a personal nature), we're good. :)

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The 9th Sage
03-29-2004, 06:41 PM
> I wonder is this a long distance relationship or one close
> to you because that could make a difference in understand
> what's going on.

Slightly long distance, but we generally get to see each other at least once a week, if not more.

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