i'm entering cad mode

[Lobster Cowboy]

shit fuck ass crap....

there's this girl i totally dig, right? like i could see her being my wife someday, which is a total trip.

however.

she's sort of sick, and we haven't been able to really talk to each other (i mean real sick, not the sniffles). this girl and i AREN'T boyfriend/girlfriend, but we've got great potential. i mean really great. we totally and completely match.

so of course, tonight i go out and get digits from a girl i just met.

god damn it.

i really don't want to fuck this girl over by not calling (she's pretty cool herself), but i REALLY don't want to fuck the sick girl over.

motherfucker.

i voluntarily took myself out of the dating game a year and a half ago after i totally and completely broke some poor girl's heart (no, i didn't cheat on her...she told me she loved me, and i said nothing), but now i'm ready to dive back in.

do i blow an opportunity with a the girl i just met, or do i stick it out for what might be the real deal?

yeah i know...i've become a sucky guy, the kind women complain about.

blah.

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[Dark Macc]

Stick it out for the sick chick, man. Take her flowers or something. You sound crazy about her. The other chick is just a fill in for now.

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[Narvick]

Seeing as cows get more play than I do from chicks, I have no clue. Although I guess it depends. What kind of 'sick' are we talking about here?


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[JadussD]

> do i blow an opportunity with a the girl i just met, or do i
> stick it out for what might be the real deal?
>

oh come on, you of all people can see her as someone you'd _marry_? COMMIT. at least for a while. christ. i've watched enough shitty movies to know that supposedly, dating like shopping gets old.

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[Fla Flash]

Follow your heart.
It won't always take you in the right direction, but it takes you in the best direction. Good luck.

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[maq112k2]

Have a friend-to-friend relationship with the girl who's number you got. Don't go to serious, and you might be ok.

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[Octocrook]

> yeah i know...i've become a sucky guy, the kind women
> complain about.

Or that guys like me complain about because the women that complain about those guys still stay with them!

Lol anyways...unless you just want a fuck buddy, commit to the sick girl. You don't meet girls you might want to marry all the time, do you?

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[fairykiller]

> yeah i know...i've become a sucky guy, the kind women
> complain about.

Eh, no, we all have to make choices sometimes. I'm going to go with FlaFlash's suggestion and say follow your heart. And if your heart likes the sick girl better (sounds like it does), then don't mess around with the other girl anymore. Unless you think you can just be friends - which can be an impossible feat to achieve if she's expecting you to hook up with her whenever you meet, so you'd have to make it very clear that that is what you want. If this is too hard, and you do want to be with the sick girl, I would just stay away from the other one (tell her what's going on though, so that she isn't waiting around). Think of it this way - if she's looking for a relationship, she deserves better than someone who is really into some other girl anyway.

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[Tsyni]

take em both at once, and get a few more on the side.<img src=smilies/thumb.gif>

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[Lobster Cowboy]

> take em both at once, and get a few more on the side.
>

i love you man.

actually, i decided to call the new girl. she deserves a chance, you know? besides, when i wear my jacket, i can still smell her perfume. i like that :)

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[Tsyni]

I've always thought your av/sig were awesome(way off topic) but I just wanted to mention it now. I'm starting to believe I may be attracted the lobster fellow.<img src=smilies/cwm10.gif>

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[Lobster Cowboy]

> I've always thought your av/sig were awesome(way off topic)
> but I just wanted to mention it now. I'm starting to believe
> I may be attracted the lobster fellow.
>

thank you, but beware....those pincers are dangerous in bed ;)

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